Um.... there are so many thing wrong about this comment. 1. she is having two girls so why on earth would you say girls are hard? why would you want to already make her worry more on top of the complications she is having in this pregnancy. 2. Nasty boys? really? Did you forget she has twin sons? 3. You know what is really hard? HAVING YOUR BABY (or in her case babies) DIE!
Why do people keep making these STUPID, HURTFUL, IGNORANT comments?! I see this on a daily basis and I just have to bite my tongue every time. At times I will jump in and defend my BLM friend but to do this every single day multiple times a day is exhausting and increases the stress levels. I know its not my job to be the BLM police... but I do want to offer my BLM friends support. Its just so draining.